probably not for the bus. i could get a bus to the city but i need to go beyond that to long island.
they're making arrangements today. i guess i'll find out. he hasn't said in so many words he expects me to drive there so hopefully i'm just stressing myself out for no reason and we will be able to go together. he knows how i feel about interstates and highways, but he also thinks it's stupid.
if it came down to it i think i would have to stay home with the kids. which might be better anyway they are too little to go to a funeral. i would just have to hope that he would understand and not hold it against me too much.