Whilst I agree with divine to a point I was seeing my current fella for 3 months before I was ready to commit. Sure we made out in that time. Mostly we just did our own thing and met once a week. If he had pushed me earlier I would have had to say no, in fact I did a couple of times cos I wanted to be sure of him before I committed.

Like I said without a time frame it's hard to say.
I would say a few dates over a couple of weeks wouldn't be enough for me to even consider committing. However a few months gave a much better indicator of how we really got along.

But I reiterate, TRUST your instincts,above everything else, only do right by you. 2hell with everyone else.