I basically Just woke up after 20Yrs of being closed and in No relationships at all so for me I met someone messed that up totally or at least I thought that it was me been finding out over the last few weeks t hat I was being manipulated by this woman then lied to. which while it was all happening I knew sort of that it was but becasue of my Loneliness and total new emotions of being wanted didn't want to see it at all. now I am relearning everything like I was a teen again and as far as I can tell the Woman that I have been hanging around with off and on and that I sort of have known over the past 2 years is honest with me. SO as for men being Evil I know that they are out there I actually have known quite a few that I call Male Sluts sending **** pics and such it is all a game to them. but these guys are Damaged goods which is why they Are the way they are. myself I just wished and am hoping that at my Age it isn't to late to find a good woman who knows maybe the friend that I am with is actually her. it is very hard to close your self off then when you open your self up those emotions are very powerful which I had forgotten about and was flooded with. my Biggest Advice is don't close your self off just be very patient and you will learn to weed out the creeps, sluts losers out of your path and don't do what I did it isn't worth it.