I admit, many years ago when I was in my early 20's, I once shared some nudes with a guy I met online and it made me feel cheap and scummy. Like I had lowered my values and morals just to please some guy for a moment in time. Not saying anything negative about this activity in and of itself, just expressing how participating made me feel. The point being, I misplaced my trust in some guy online who was a total sleaze and as a result, I felt bad about the whole situation afterword.

I understand that you want to find a guy who you know in your heart that you can trust, and that you can share wonderful parts of yourself with, but perhaps you should delete all the nudes of yourself that you have and tell yourself never to take anymore again. Not until you can learn to recognize who is trustworthy and who is a total sleaze, looking for a vulnerable young girl to take advantage of.

I know your upset, but passing such mass generalizations on guys isn't doing anyone any favors. I truly believe there are honorable men out there who are beyond trustworthy. You just have to be discrete and learn how to judge the situation enough to know who is who.

Good Luck!