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Originally Posted by LiteraryLark
I have been masturbating before he comes over so i dont have any urges. It doesnt help having a high sex drive and wanting sex but also want to be in a committed relationship. At this point im overwhelmed with these mixed messages .
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And once again I find myself grateful I'm Ace.

it removes ALOT of complications.
It's good you have a time frame.
I used to work out exactly how many hours I had spent in a guys company before I considered if I could possibly know him well enough to commit.
It frightening to realise they could be expecting you to make your mind up after only 24 hrs in each other's company.