Thing is, do you think he wants to live with roommates? Like i wouldnt tell him to go, then kick out your h too. But then im not a big fan of the h. I understand the concept of not making the child responsible for the adult decisions. But neither should the child bear the burden. And right now son is doing that. I wish my dad would have stood up to my mom for me, instead of making me suck it up. Same situation only all the genders have been changed! He kinda did, but not enough.

Eta - just woke up from a nap. Boy that chiro does a number on me. I dont know how cougars do it! They must be younger than i am!