Hi Melmo, I can feel your frustration. Wow its like I'm in the middle of the storm you're experiencing. I have experienced the same with 16, 19 and 25 year olds but with yours being so young it would be hard to just disengage. This has got to be unbearable for you. May I ask, is there another adult with you for any type of relief/support? Also having experienced this from the other side, have your or your care giver thought about testing you for ADHD. Unfortunately my SO did not get diagnosed until 48 and the price paid by her and her children is significant. If so you could really use a lot of support. This is from Psychcentral: https://psychcentral.com/lib/parent-...gies-for-adhd/ Try at least to read the article. My thoughts and spirit are with you. May you have some peace this night.