I dunno. I think being a parent requires quite a lot of sucking it up and doing s h I t you don't want to do. It is called putting your child's wellbeing first and being a responsible parent. If you don't want to put the child's needs before your own, don't have kids. But that is my opinion and a result of being raised by people who could not be bothered to care about my feelings the way Art cares about her son's.