The getting tested before unprotected sex, awesome!

The listing of past lovers, not so much! That's actually just asking for trouble.

I've never once heard someone say they've had that convo and that it went sooo well.

So while this whole shytti situation is definitely on your bf for being rude, immature and disrespectful, I honestly would refrain from having numbers talks in the future. There's nothing wrong with leaving the past behind you.