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Old Feb 04, 2017, 02:56 AM
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So, having read through this entire thread I was going to comment that making out prior to commitment is pretty common. And depending on your boundaries and comfort level, other things might be okay too, but it sounds like you want commitment before intimacy, so I would stick by that. If this guy kept telling you he didn't want a relationship, I wouldn't have bothered seeing him anymore.

At least he told he was just interested in sex. Believe him. Don't try and change his mind, he won't. Kick him to the curb.

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