Don't want free reign to contact my proc. If I did I would never learn to cope on my own, I would just keep snivvling down the phone saying "I can't do it..." then we would wind up talking over the same old issue over again. When in fact more often than not these things I can actually resolve myself if I have no other option.

Then I feel AWESOME! Cos I did it! I did it!

Then I tell the doc, and he gets all smug and says,
"Told you you could"
Eugh, *eyeroll*