((((((((twirls01)))))))) my heart goes out to you for i know what it is like to give so much of yourself to others that there is nothing left for yourself. the best advice i can give you is to talk to God and spend time with Him in prayer. He can and will give you strength and direction and make His answers clear. i also agree with Peacemaker's post. you need to learn how to protect yourself by saying no when you just aren't able to help without hurting yourself in the process.