'hi lifeee112. Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry you are having problems with difficult parents

You put your location as Netherlands so have you already left your village? That might be a very positive boundary to live in another country.

I am not sure how to cope with that so I will just suggest these articles that might be of interest

https://pro.psychcentral.com/exhaust...istic-parents/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/archiv...sistic-parent/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/archiv...icult-parents/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/underst...olling-mother/

https://pro.psychcentral.com/exhaust...-a-narcissist/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/archiv...sistic-parent/