About 5 months ago, I moved into my best friend's father's house because I got really hypo and started a huge fight with my mom that forced me out of her house. I was finishing up my Bachelor's degree and have just scored my first job! I am moving out of here in 4-5 months, so I can save money, and my friend's father is moving to Arizona.
My friend's father has been great - supported me with school and hasn't expected much of me financially.
Over the past month, he got weirdly lovey towards me. Trying to hold my hand, stroke my hair, give me massages. I politely leave these situations or visibly show I am not comfortable so he will stop.
The other night he was texting me very weird sexual things, and I immediately responded with no, that makes me uncomfortable, you have to stop. He has rapidly apologized for his drug-induced state, but is still coming at me very strong. I have resorted to coming home late or hiding in my room. I am absolutely terrified he's going to get ********* again and either make me soo uncomfortable again or worse.
I told him I don't want a sexual relationship with him, but he's still being weird. I really want to confide in my best friend, but it's gonna cause a huge fight between her and her dad. It just seems like trouble follows me.
I get super anxious whenever I go home. But I don't have anywhere to go until I have the money to move out. He's going to notice I'm avoiding him and point it out and I really don't want to piss him off, but he won't drop the fact he's sexually attracted to me. I am at a loss and it's driving me into depression.
This whole situation drives me insane and I'm so freaked out to tell anyone about it because I don't want to make it a big deal, nothing has happened, and I AM NOT sexually attracted to the man. But it really freaks me out.