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Old Feb 04, 2017, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Mr. Stranger View Post
It would be nice to have one person in my life. Someone with whom I will have some connection. Someone to go out with and visit places together. Someone who checks on me from time to time. Someone I can put to be contacted in case of an emergency when I visit a hospital. Maybe I have other good traits, but my lack of social skills give my all other good traits almost zero value. Social skills are like 1 and every other good trait is like a zero to the right. Without social skills, everything else is a bunch of zeros. No one cares about them. No wonder why I feel my life is empty and meaningless.
Why not have that other person be you? Have connection with yourself. Go out and visit places with yourself. Check in with yourself from time to time to see how you are doing. In an emergency, you take care of yourself. Stop putting yourself down. Forget the "Social Skills" and just be yourself. That is when you start making connections with others.
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Thanks for this!
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