I'm a lesbian who divorced her husband back in 2003. It's not the sole reason, but it all came out a few years after the fact. I knew I was back when we were 1st married but didn't want to face things.

Now, years later, I'm single, gay, dating and happily divorced. My grown daughters are okay that mom's gay. It's just going to take time.

The denial will lessen and give way eventually. My thinking has always been that I was made/born this way and I'm not going to try and change myself.