I don't know if I can go back. She said I was deceiving as I don't say anything to my family when they put me down but I can't cos it doesn't work it makes things worse as my mum then goes into victim mood and sulks for ages and it makes the situation worse and it's not fair on my kids. Also I've always for as long as I can remember is to be put down by them it's not easy to defend yourself, she also said that I like to moan about my mum