I've been struggling with this. I am usually way too open with everyone, but with current T I can't seem to get past the surface of most things and can't approach sex at all (I couldn't even do it before I admitted the ET). I'm annoyed by it and she seems to be, too. Her apparent irritation is actually clamming me up more, because I figure if she's judging my silence, surely she'll judge what I say. As we enter our 16th month, though, I think I'm frustrated with myself enough to finally just let it all out and leave her to sort through it. Hopefully. Maybe.