I have serious trust issues with most people. As soon as I don't hear from them or get what I am used to getting from them I start to think something is wrong.

I agree with Rhapsody.....I don't think actions speak louder than words either. At times you have to just go with your gut. Sometimes it's not possible to go by what people do or say anymore because everyone is so different nowadays with their own personal problems and what not.

If someone is a real friend you will eventually get what you deserve from them and they will recognize your ability to be a true friend to them and they will appreciate it and act accordingly.

Thats my two cents. Hope that makes sense.