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Feb 05, 2017, 11:12 AM
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I think you can continue to be her friend, but you are both very young and have had abuse in your pasts. I think it's best if you both consider getting help (therapy) for your abuse.
I also think you are too young to be thinking about getting a job to support someone else right out of high school. You need to go to university and finish your education as well as does she.
If she reacts poorly to this and doesn't want to be your friend, there is nothing you can do. But you have to do what's best for yourself at this point. You have no responsibility to her.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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