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Originally Posted by Sad Mermaid
Ah, I see. for clarity purposes (to develop a sense of direction), it is good that you are sure that you do not want to rebuild anything with the other person.
I think you are right in that you fear being the loser. See what those sessions with pencils and paper yield - what color your emotions are, what color and shapes you will choose for your revenge, etc. You will learn a lot about your subconscious via these sessions.
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It's lose-lose situation. I'm not wining, she is not wining, if getting out of tensions relationship does not count as winning. I drew pictures of revenge - I drew myself in red, being taller than everything, stretching my hands over enemy and her belongings. She was brown, sad, crying blue tears, her belongings brown and in fire. Her belongings burn because she is so obsessed of how much who owns. I caught her being envious of others and then she offended me having expensive stuff (ikea and so lol). I just think this is how much I want to be in controll in situations and I realised I'm not. We both lost this round.