I can talk about absolutely anything that I want to talk about with my T and I take her up on it. We have talked many times about sex or sex related stuff and she's great. She is non-judgemental and has never made me feel ashamed of anything. There was a time where I felt that I over-shared and was really embarrassed and we talked about it. She said that it wasn't that I over-shared it was that I probably shared before I was ready.

She's also great about not pressuring me to talk about things until I am sure that I'm ready. She doesn't ever seem to dig around trying to get me to reveal things either.

I think that I've got a great T and really like her with the exception of her blank slate style but she is working on not shutting me down when I ask a question.