H and son sat down at the kitchen table together and are talking about money and son's budget. There has been a little bit of arguing so far. Son can take care of himself with his Dad, how about that. Why did I think he couldn't? I just make things worse when I interfere, most of the time.

I am staying out of it. Their relationship is between them. I do not have to step in and try to "fix" anything. I need to let them work it out. (This I am telling myself as I type it.)