I had 3 T's over a 10 year span. The 1st one I terminated her because she was rushing me. 3 sessions in and she asked me when I was planning on actually doing some real work. Yeah, I don't think so. Goodbye. Done.
2nd T just didn't work out because he was also the T one of my bosses was seeing and despite several request to not be booked back to back with her-those request were not honored. He also brought her up a lot in my sessions and therefore created a big conflict of interest. Also, since he was bringing her up in my sessions-I wondered if I was being brought up in hers. So, I saw him a few times and then at the end of a session just told him I was done. He called a few weeks later and told me he was putting my file away and asked me if I was sure I didn't want to continue before he closed it. I told him I thought I was very clear that I didn't want to continue and told him to take care.
3rd T-which is the most recent-I think I probably talked about how that went. I terminated after 8 years over text message. I tried to honor the relationship and go in to talk with her face to face, but did not return my phone calls. Then she sent a letter and then I sent her a sarcastic termination email just to get the last word.
Current T-I just started with her on Feb 1st and my sessions are bi-weekly so I won't see her again until the 15th. I'll come back and let you know as soon as she screws up.