Remembering of course that we also tend to have this stereotype of male female interactions where the guy actively persues the girl and the girl sets the pace.

I could tell you the things that I like about him so you would see that it isn't JUST about how he makes me feel (though that is a part of it of course).

That being said you are well within your rights to say 'no'. Just like if he were to be pressuring you for sex or something like that. You would also be well within your rights to say 'I have no idea whether I love you or not because for me it takes time'. You would also be well within your rights to say 'I feel pressured when you tell me that you love me. I don't feel ready for that yet'.