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Originally Posted by IrisBloom
I'd like some insight on this, but first let me say that I do not believe in ghosts, visits from the dead, or similar things.
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So here's my dreams...
I have dreamt 4 times about him being with me after his death. In my dreams we have had his funeral and taken care of all his affairs. Nothing undone. But here we are living in another place and I know he was dead and now he's not. In the dream I keep wondering 1) How did he fake his death if he did? 2) Will I still get the life insurance if he was dead and is not now? 3) Can he die again and if so, when?
As I said, there are no loose ends, no regrets, no guilt, no sense of something left undone. So why am I dreaming about him?
O, I do have one slight regret. He was far away when he did pass, so I realize I might have issues about not being able to be with him, but it is not something I worry about.
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Hi,
It is quite normal to dream of a relative or close friend after they died.
During sleep there is always a stream of thoughts flowing through the unconscious mind and negative thoughts often intrude into the dream flow.
They tend to interrupt sleep and the subconscious changes the negative thoughts into a dream story/dream scenario to to preserve the sleep.
If you analyse your dreams you'll find negative aspects in the dream story.
At the end of the dream there is always a waking element of mostly emotin of regret used to wake you when you had enough sleep.
You'll find as time passes the dreams about your dad will be less frequent.