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sister said:
When T made that comment about transference I asked him to explain and he said I was completely in the feeling state.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">Does he think this is not productive? I strive to be in the feeling state, so this for me would probably be seen as progress. When I don't have an objective view of what has happened, I trust my T to tell me and I believe him. This is just from months of getting to know him and trust his vision and judgment. Sometimes it can help us move forward more quickly. He can say, "sunny, trust me, this is what happened!" and it's like getting a kick in the noggin into trustland, and I can move on. I think it shows how much you trust your T, sister, that you could be completely in the "feeling state" with him.