I went through my twenties thinking that I was to selfish to have children, getting up to someone else schedule and all that sounds hellish to me but now I'm in my mid 30's and the possibility of having a child is almost zero I really want one !
A relative who never had children past away recently and her later years of life where ones of regret for never having had a family, she married several times and her husband who past away only weeks after her had children and grandchildren but spending time with them only seemed to make her regret stronger I am terrified that will be me and now wish I hadn't been so careful with my birth control in my younger years.