Wow, how long did you know the woman before she became your fiancee & you built her a house that she ended up keeping for her & her not ex husband but husband all along to move into?....what kind of intelligent successful entrepreneur would allow that to happen?

I ended up married to a guy who bragged about his intelligence but he didnt have a lick of common sense. I kept trying to deal with ALL the issues the whole 33 years....he honestly didnt get a word I was saying but would never admit he didnt understand. After 33 years of that & basically living separated in the same house the last 13 years of those 33 years, it wasnt worth even trying to talk about the issues so I finally just left when I had the money to get out.

He kept telling me that he couldnt change & that it was his personality. I had no idea what I had really been dealing with until my psychologists suggested possible aspergers with everything I told them about what I had been dealing wuth & until I finally experienced what REAL emitional connection with people is, I only senced it was a huge missing part of my marriage & my growing up years with my parents....the other huge thing was INABILITY to communicate. Im guessing but if you might have been better at communicating & less with unspoken assumptions you might not have ended up in some of the bad situations you have found yourself.

Honestly from personal experience, being alone these last 9 years is mych better than being alone in a bad relationship. I wouldnt trade my alone for ever going back to that life.

Maybe you shouldnt hang your happiness on a person but learn how to be happy from within. You can get used to anything you want....its A CHOICE.