you... know... I would love to say that sounds so "logical"... that your friend would follow-up with more if she wants a friendship... but if she is like my friend... well.. she is just illogical.. lol... and my friendship... was very close.. and of now a duration of 29 years... so worth saving... because well for me it was my adult.. lifetime..

for me I didn't re-hash... every little thing.. it was more of you mis-treated our friendship by telling big whopper lies - that mattered (not itt bitt ones).. and that hurt me.. and for us to move forward in our friendship... you cannot treat me this way.. you cannot lie about the big stuff...

so.... I pointed out.. what big lies were --- yepper... she actually needed to be told a couple whopper's...that she told... like.. ahhhhhhh.. the house she sold me had "terminite" damage.. ahhhh only I found out by someone else... I didn't ask for an insepection or a discloursre... cause she was my friend... and she didn't want to do that....prior to the sale..

There were so many things... not just with my home....

The point was.. I just wanted her to know.. just like with a child.... this is what is wrong.. this is what to not do.. and this is how I want to be treated...

for you... I would just have to think whether the friendship was worth the effort....