Hi--I just read your post here. I am married and have two kids, but rather sadly, when I'm with my wife I feel incredibly alone. I never felt that with my other relationships. Often I think that if I were alone, I would be able to spend some time with my children and my friends and not be nervous she's going to start yelling at me. Maybe the goal should be to focus less on being "married" and focus more on having connections with people?