I just wanted to say that people with Asperger may have high intellectual intelligence, but usually they have lower emotional intelligence than average. They have difficult times reading social cues and intentions. People must not confuse the two. So, I understand how one can be successful in their jobs but not so much in their personal life. I don't have an advice for you, though because I struggle in my personal life as well. However, we are all social animals, and we crave connections and intimacy. No doubt the social life is full of struggles, but loneliness is also a struggle in itself. In other words, choosing to be alone to avoid social problems isn't an ultimate solution. Maybe when you get older you decide to continue alone after experiencing life in its good and bad.

Do you have this problem with everyone, or just with women?