i have always admired your ability to "put yourself out there".......you are a much braver individual than myself.......kerry..not only does your opinion count but it is important and valid......i know that many of your words speak for us who can't find the words so continue to be yourself.......you are loved and admired.....but a husband should NEVER put his wife down in front of the children not EVER....this is something i have never tolerated in my marriage and no one should!