Hey man, really sorry about what happened to you with your girlfriend, that's awful. I'm 15 and I feel I may be getting into a similar situation. I've been friends with this girl at my school for two years and I've watched her slowly destroy her life and alienate her friends over time. There's been an abortion (not mine), drama, abusive relationships with boyfriends,etc. Despite this, she's been my best friend and I decided I wanted to date her. We've been dating for over a week and she's telling me all this awful stuff her ex just told her and when i asked him (my friend also) about it, he said that it was all taken out of context and never happened. Like your relationship, it went from zero to sixty really fast. We started dating Sunday night and we were making out hardcore by Tuesday (no sex though). My grandfather has been stuck in a situation like yours since the 60's and Im terrified that this is going to end up like that. I'm trying to figure out a way out, but I'm her only friend and I worry for her safety and I still really care for her. What should i do