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Originally Posted by Erebos
Just a side note for people reading. Being bi/ poly, does not mean we all feel entitled to multiple partners.
I for one fully focus and commit to my partner. If WE want to bring someone else onto our relationship, it is after a long and Frank discussion.
We do not go about hitching up with other people and strike up separate relationships.
I just wanted to be clear on that.
Anyway to the OP, I hope you manage to be successful on your own it would prove an excellent example to others with similar disorders.
I thinkaintaining NC with your ex would be kindest on you both in the future.
All the best.
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I have to second this.
As someone who at one point considered myself bi (I no longer label myself), this was the worst-----people automatically assumed that because I was bi that I couldn't be faithful, that I was a slut-ho-bag who would eff anything and everything. This couldn't be further from the truth, AND this was the biggest reason that I dropped the "bi" label and pretty much anything to do with the LGBT community (as they were actually more discriminatory towards bi people than anyone I'd ever met who was "straight")
If you want to be taken seriously as being bi/poly, then don't be cheating on people. "bi/poly" doesn't equate with "can sleep with whomever I want, even if I'm in a committed relationship".
If you want to "play" then stay single or ONLY get into open relationships where both parties are free to do as they please.