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Originally Posted by GoldenWaves
Women are generally introverted?
This statement is false given that the majority of people are extroverted.
I don't think you are using my this term correctly.
Introverted-----re-energizes through alone time.
Extroverted-----re-energizes through contact with other people.
But in general, many women are irritated by guys who hit on them at the gym. (It's a BIG reason why women only gyms exist.)
I also don't think you understand what a red flag is. A woman not giving you 100% positive feedback is not a red flag.
Red flags are more along the lines of "he won't tell me where he lives even though we've been dating for three months" hence a red flag of the guy being married! (For example.)
If you interpret every little thing that didn't go perfectly as a red flag, you will be single for life as you'll end up misinterpreting actions and throwing people away for no reason at all.
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ok, so instead of red flags, I'll call it subtle signs, since those
are subtle signs - they either mean little or nothing.
As for the bold, that's exactly why I still have a feeling of optimism about her.
What do you suggest I do? From the subtle signs she gave, I don't feel she's really into this. It's in a way unpleasant for me to talk to someone who seems irritated from you, especially if you intend well. Do you see things otherwise?
I'm thinking of moving on - not away but not forward either. I may greet her, throw some small talks only if more possible. And that's about that. The most important thing for me is to keep things cool and fine.
But I still want to hear your thoughts.
Mr. Stranger - the "red flags" I referred to are the irritated looks and tones, going away from me when I went to be with her and when we worked on the same station. However it's not all "red" as I've mentioned.
I'll fix it to "subtle signs" instead, because GoldenWaves has a point about "red flags" relating to more major concerns.