I appreciate the honesty. For some reason, she doesn't want to be the one to file for divorce. I explained like an adult that if she wanted it to be over that she should go ahead and file. Her mom is oblivious to everything, saying to pray about it and leave it in Gods hands. She told her family she never cheated but admitted to having friends and having fun. To me, the friendship line and boundaries where definitely crossed. She told her mom that she didn't want a divorce but she didn't like the fact I kept her in a "Bubble" as she calls it. Yes I do get insecure and jealous but it seems like I have a right to feel that way in this situation. I don't mind if she has friends, but not the kind that want to hang out and do stuff like that. I am seeing a counselor for those issues so I can handle them better in the future with either her or the next relationship