Thank you all. She's telling her mother that she does not want to divorce for me, but that I keep her in a bubble and I run off all of her friends. Deep down I might be naïve, but I don't think she physically cheated on me, but I do feel she is having an emotional affair with this man. I am seeking individual counseling for myself to get over my insecurities and jealousy but I think it warrants it in this situation. It's hard to just let go of 10 years but maybe you guys are right. Hopefully I'll be a better person and a man with her or my next relationship