pirilin, that is so sad!! !I'm very sorry you never found a hypersexual woman. I was lucky, in a way -- I had 11 great sexual years with a hypersexual unipolar manic husband. It was hard to give up, but he was also probably a sociopath. He was a liar, gaslighter, and had some drug problems and undesirable friends. If any guys out there want a hypersexual woman, then, from my experience anyway, you'll need to let her be the first move. All I had to do was look at him flirty, and off we'd go. We called him EverReady.

I forgot to say in my first post on this thread, that I am no longer sexual at all. I don't know if it's the medication, or age. Supposedly elder adults "have a right to have sexuality." Well, whatever my "right" is, I'm glad mine's gone. My boyfriend's sexuality is gone, too. We are both glad, for the other person, that each of us had out wild times and great partners. Now, some might call us stodgy, but we are definitely not that.