Once again we are in the situation of asking for advice and being unprepared to hear it.

Once again we are in the situation of someone misconstruing constructive criticism for hate instead of an effort to actually be supportive and helpful.

Once again, we are in the situation of where one (or more) think blindly jumping on a bandwagon of agreement with a poster is the only right thing to do.

Once again we are in a position of where a poster wants to hear only validation for their thoughts. One can acknowledge another's thoughts yet still disagree.

And, once again we are in a position where perhaps bringing up the harsh reality of a situation is really the most important thing we can do.

Please, do NOT take these things to be acts of vindictiveness, hate, or trolling when what they really are are acts of kindness and support.