I agree, you're very kind and you listen well - and you've survived in this often cruel world. I think you'd make a good therapist or counsellor . Also whoever you marry eventually will be lucky as you're kind and intelligent - not a failure

(Ps in my experience some of the people who think they are a "success" and "superior" to others are some of the nastiest people around... and not a "success" at all (not about anyone on pc)