It sounds like your mental health worker is not equipped or willing to deal with crises, as they said and indicated. Not that that's fair or good, but no sense in dwelling on that. You need help and to get better. I really think the only ones equipped and willing to deal with crises are ER's and this is where you need to go. I've work in ER's and have seen that if there is no bed at the hospital where you go, they can check other hospitals to see if there are beds available there. Please go. They can truly help you. You need a bridge between your current crisis and DBT and DBT, anyway, isn't equipped to deal with crises either. JUST the ER. Please go! And take good care of you...