Oh my god, I'm sorry you had to go through all of that! That sounds horrible and so unfair. Yes, I can see myself through the first half of your story, although I don't feel like my boyfriend ever hid anything from me. But yes, I think about the future, what if we had kids together, what kind of dad would he be and that stuff... I think he would be a great dad in terms of relationship, but financially, I can only see a disaster happening.
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Originally Posted by Zedsdead
You are a also right about him failing to get the cat neutered IS a reflection of the bigger picture. He will probably use the excuses for any kind of responsibility he is faced with during his life. Unless he learns the hard way.
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Yes, i feel like he is always finding an excuse for everything that goes wrong in his life. I try to make him see it, but he just refuses. And I told him again this morning when the cat issue happened, and he refuted it as well. It is like he truly believes it is not him, it's the world. I'm tired of the excuses...