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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
I think you're right about having doubts about him and your relationship. But I also think he needs help. I'm not saying you should be the one to give him that help.. it's your choice. But I think he's legitimately struggling with something and he needs help.. but about you, you have to think of yourself. If you don't think he's the right guy for you, then you know what to do.
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We have spoken about that, too.
He is absolutely frustrated that he spent so much money on his education and hasn't been able to find a job in his field because there is barely any demand. Also, he is overwhelmed with his student loans. I honestly don't blame him.
I've identified that he has good ideas, but has trouble getting them into action. He spends too much time trying to figure out all the whys and worrying about things that are valid — which is good, but sometimes you need to stop thinking so much and start doing. He wants to solve problems, go from A to Z, but struggles to get through the process in-between.
I also believe 100% that not-working can drive you to a deep depression, especially when you stay indoors all the time. He is very pro-mental health, but he doesn't has the means to go to a doctor right now, of course.
