Blueangel you are welcome here. We are here to support each other.
Do you see a Therapist, I will advise you to journal, talk here or a Therapist about it.
Your friend may have her own problems to deal with or feel too sensitive to talk about it.
I know I can listen times to times but don't like constant moaning. When I go out with a friend we have serious conversations but I like to joke and laugh, I don't want people to make me feel that I am responsible for our they feel.
I had a friend who would all the time complained about the same thing, no matter how much you would listen or advice he wanted to stay in the self pity mode and it was draining so I had to cut him off.
If you are like that think about it.