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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
The getting tested before unprotected sex, awesome!
The listing of past lovers, not so much! That's actually just asking for trouble.
I've never once heard someone say they've had that convo and that it went sooo well.
So while this whole shytti situation is definitely on your bf for being rude, immature and disrespectful, I honestly would refrain from having numbers talks in the future. There's nothing wrong with leaving the past behind you.
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Right from the get go, when I read them talking about "numbers" I wanted to stop right there and say "no, just no..." This never goes well.
@OP the bf needs to accept that you both have pasts and there were chances that either of you could have contracted something, it's not really a reflection on you now or even then, if an ex gave you the STD, that really is on that guy not on you. If it was from infidelity or being promiscuous and with many men then it could be an issue with you but since I don't get that feeling from what you've said, it's just the one bad ex, you dealt with it and it's time to move on.
By move on, either you move on with him and he lets it go or you move on without him. That's my strong suggestion. I have a feeling though he's hung up on this now and won't and so I would recommend that peace of mind though going it alone is the better of the options you have here.