The foreplay gets me excited for the sex but the sex is what hits my peak and I get really into that... it doesn't last too long but it's not too short neither.. but when it's over I still feel anxious and in the mood.. he's tired obviously and I don't feel relieved. I need uninterrupted attention down there for a while so I can orgasm and calm down.. I don't need to orgasm every single time but especially if the sex isn't frequent, I need to orgasm.