I was served with papers after 13 years of marriage. We have been getting along fine or so I thought. This was a total shock to me. When I asked why he wanted a divorce he had no answer, just wants out. When I asked about maybe going to a counselor he said no.

I had to hire a lawyer because this is not what I want. I knew I had rights but he is trying to bully me out of the marriage. Once he got the answer from my lawyer he flipped out.

I know at this point I NEED to move out but I have no income or car. No relatives around me to go to either. He has threatened to burn everything we own if I go after his retirement or ask for spousal support while the separation is ongoing. He said I am not entitled t anything because he worked for it all and I stayed home. Yes I stayed home cooking, cleaning etc. I am a housewife. What should I do? Im soo confused. Im done crying. My lawyer said a judge probably will order interim spousal support but until then I don't know how to deal with this. He is now a different person.