I read the other thread, and you mentioned that your husband is abusive..so my question:

how is this one night stand going to solve the fact that your husband still uses you as a punching bag?

You need to get a real plan of action--all the time you spent wasting on whether or not you should sleep with your friend's spouse could have been directed towards something more beneficial--like getting away from your husband and providing a better life for you and your children.

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My children's behavior is entirely seperate from my sex life. As for my husband, I really don't care anymore...he's horrible to me.

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No, sweetie it's not separate. And you are using the fact that your husband is so terrible to sit back and do nothing. So far, you seem rather selfish. All you care about is your own sexual pleasure and that's it. The sex was good but how is that helping your kids...??

You really need to get your priorities straight.