I have a new male friend. He's 12 years younger than me and very hot. But I would never want to go romantic because I hold the friendship sacred. This is my first attempt at a friendship with a man. It isn't easy because sometimes I flirt without meaning too bc that is what comes naturally then I have to think-what if he was a girl-how would I act? This brings me back into the column of correct relationship. The point is I have broken out of my depression due to this new relationship. I am having a blast. We are hiking, hanging out at bizarre coffee shops in Asheville, texting, we have a lot n common.

Maybe you could find a friend? Maybe it could turn into something romantic but I'm finding the friend thing is way better- not all that twisted emotional stuff-no sex-just enjoyment. Don't have to be alone anymore but when I want to be, I can say see you tomorrow and ther's no drama.